“If you let cloudy water settle, it will become clear. If you let your upset mind settle, your course will also become clear.” – Buddha’s Little Instruction Book
I thought I would write a blog on something that could be helpful to all of us, in our everyday lives, work, family, relationships. I believe that mindfulness is something that we should all practice – everyday. Perhaps it is something we teach our children?
If you haven’t heard about mindfulness then please have a read. I have posted some great information from The Black Dog Institute below with some great exercises to get you started.
What is mindfulness?
Mindfulness is self-awareness training adapted from Buddhist mindfulness meditation. It can be described as a state of being in the present, accepting them for what they are.
Some Mindfulness Techniques to practice:
One Minute Exercise
- Sit in front of a clock or watch that you can use to time the passing of one minute. Your task is to focus your entire attention on your breathing, and nothing else, for the minute.
- Bring yourself into the present by deliberately adopting an erect and dignified posture.
- Then ask yourself: “what is going on with me at the moment?”
- You simply allow yourself to observe what happens. Label any thoughts that you have and then leave them alone…. Just be prepared to let them float away. Attend to your breathing or simply take in your surroundings instead.
- Besides your thoughts, there may be sounds you hear, bodily sensations that you are aware of. If you find yourself constantly elaborating on your thoughts, rather than labelling and returning to the neutral, remember to observe your breathing.
- When emotions or memories of painful events occur, don’t allow yourself to become caught up by them.
- Give them short labels such as “that’s a sad feeling”, “that’s an angry feeling” and then just allow them to drift or float away. These memories and feelings will gradually decrease in intensity and frequency.
- More importantly, you will begin to identify yourself as an objective observer or witness rather than a person who is disturbed by these thoughts or feelings.
- This involves sitting down at a table and eating a meal without engaging in any other activities – no newspaper, no books, no phone, no talking.
- Now eat your meal paying full attention to which piece of foot you select to eat, how it looks, how it smells, how you cut the food, the muscles you use to raise it to your mouth, the texture and taste of the food as you chew it slowly.
- You may be amazed at how different the food tastes when eaten in this way and filling a meal can be.
- Here the same principle, while walking you concentrate on the feel of the ground under your feet, your breathing while walking. Just observe what is around you as you walk, staying in the present. Let your thoughts go, just look at the sky, the view, the other walkers; feel the wind, the temperature on you skin; enjoy the moment.
Associated Breathing Exercise
- Stay with any distressing thoughts for a few moments, then as you let them float away, you gently redirect your full attention to your breathing.
- Pay attention to each breath in and out as they follow rhythmically one after the other. This will ground you in the present and help you to move into a state of awareness and stillness.